Thursday, April 4, 2013
Wednesday, April 3, 2013
A few weeks ago, some of my friends and I found ourselves telling lots of childhood stories. I find that I kept wanting to say: "that was one of my sneaks"...AKA the things you snuck as a child that you knew you were supposed to have, and therefore have an everlasting love for.
Now, I have some pretty chill parents, who let me watch Pretty Woman over and over when I was like 7 because they knew I didn't understand it (seriously, I thought that the condoms Julia offers Richard Gere were candy???), but childhood sneaks are just things that you KNEW you shouldn't be doing, but you did anyway. Here are a few of mine:
Empire Records is a hilarious, DEEPLY 90's movie that I care about very much so. I first watched it one Saturday morning on HBO while eating ice cream that I got from the freezer by standing on a kitchen chair. I knew I shouldn't be watching it: all the sexiness, the girl with the shaved head, the teen angst, all set off my 8 year old in suburbia alarms. But it was just TOO GOOD. It features a young Liv Tyler and Renee Zellwegger, and many other great actors. From the plaid skirts to the Sinead O'Connor references, this movie transcends its original bad 90's self to be a veritable time capsule for me, and also, my fondest childhood sneak. Here's one of my favorite scenes:
Valentine is a suspense/murder mystery novel by Tom Savage. I remember finding it in my parent's room when I was 11 or 12 and my mom promptly telling me I wasn't allowed to read it. Which, obviously, only ENSURED that I would find that shit and read the hell out of it. Alas, I did, and it was one of the best things I HAVE EVER DONE. This book scared the living daylights out of my preteen self. It's about four girls who play a v-day prank on a boy, and it comes back to haunt them as adults. Also, I have not read this since I read it then, so this book could literally be the worst book ever, and I would not know. It was out of print for a long time, and I would look for a used copy every time I hit the Strand, but now I just found on Amazon that you can download a digital version! Huzzah! I will update you on its quality. Another similar situation: Intensity by Dean Kootz
Seventeen Magazine (and yep, that's Mischa Barton on the cover. Oh, how the times have changed) is one of if not the biggest teen magazine out there today, and I of course was a subscriber as a young teen. One day, my mother was flipping through an issue, and found an article about oral sex. This wasn't some Cosmo-style "Please Your Man" kind of thing, it was just some article about how oral sex was becoming way more common and expected in teens (DUH) and actually had some handy (heh) tips on staying safe. My mom promptly threw a shit fit and issued a ban on Seventeen magazine. Which, once again, signaled to my brain that it was the ONLY magazine I wanted to read, so I would borrow my older friends' copies or buy them at Barnes and Noble with my dad. SUCCESS.
What are some of your childhood sneaks?
This post is part of a series, Blogging from A to Z, you can learn more about the challenge, and find other blogs participating, here.
Tuesday, April 2, 2013
Ever since I was little, I have been a huge reader. I remember reading my first words from a Richard Scarry (classic!) book, the first book that made me cry (Where the Red Fern Grows), and the aching anticipation of waiting for the next installment of Harry Potter. The fact is that some of my fondest childhood memories revolve around my pick for the letter B: books.
Is there anything more magical than the way a book can transport you? I have had crushes on some characters, hated others violently. I am more passionate about some things that happen in books than I am about most things in my life. It's crazy, but not uncommon.
Don't get me wrong, I love movies, I'm obsessed with movies, but I would choose a book over a movie any day. Although lately, I have been choosing Netflix too often (DAMN YOU NETFLIX AND YOUR AMAZINGLY WIDE SELECTION OF GREAT TELEVISION), therefore I have not made much progress on my 2013 reading list. Ah well. I have many moons left to get through all these books. Since I can't give you some fabulous update on that, I've decided to present you with my oh so important list of Again and Agains. An "again and again" is my term for a book (or movie, tv show, etc) that you can read...um, again and again. Pretty self explanatory. It takes something special for a book to have this quality. Mine are nothing revelatory, but they are my faves, nonetheless.
Harper Heath's Again and Agains: Books
First off is one that is almost universally loved and appreciated: To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee. I first read this book when I was 12. To me then it was a mystery with a scary and exciting ending. Now it makes me long for innocence and childhood, and the themes and crimes of the book startle me because we are still struggling with these things today. I have read it at least once a year since the first time, and I am always shocked at how it manages to grow and age with me. Every time I read it, new things jump out at me. My experiences and age add weight to things that were never noticed. What was once a meaningless paragraph will become a treasured passage. It's completely timeless, and its quiet wisdom and unshakable truth make it the only book that I would ever use the word perfect to describe.
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay is an engrossing read. It spans years and years, and the characters are some of my favorites. It's about many things: New York City, comics, the Holocaust, homosexuality, family, and love. It somehow seamlessly juggles all of these things while drawing you in and making you care.
Harry Potter. I'm obsessed. I don't really feel like I have to expound because obsessed is the only word. I am constantly reading one of the books, usually number 3, 5, 6, or my favorite, 4.
Other than its INCREDIBLY MEDIOCRE movie adaptation, I am in love with everything about The Time Traveler's Wife. It is dark, romantic, sad, and touching. I have dreamt about the characters, and passages from the book pop into my head all the time. It is the book I could most easily recite or quote because it is the book I have read more than any other. Also, does anyone else hate book covers that use the movie poster?? I LOATHE them. I even hate the little stickers that say "Now a Major Motion Picture". Bleh. I will not buy a book if they only have the movie promotional one.
And last but not least is Sloppy Firsts, and the other four books in the Jessica Darling series. The characters are the most accurately written teenagers and young adults I've ever encountered in a novel. The best thing about these books is that although Jessica is a teenager in the first couple of books, they are not Young Adult books, they are truly adult I think more enjoyed as an adult. Jessica's hilarious thoughts on life and her looooong relationship with Poet-Stonah-Lovah Marcus Flutie make for some of my favorite stories. And I love going back to these books. I actually just finished the series again and it felt fresh as ever.
So there you have it, sorry this was an extra long one today, but I am, as I said, OBSESSED.
This post is part of a series, Blogging from A to Z, you can learn more about the challenge, and find other blogs participating, here.
Monday, April 1, 2013
First post of the challenge! It's all very exciting and has really gotten my creative juices flowing. It's nice to get into a pattern with things. Also, doesn't the title of this one sound like it could be super dirty? Love it.
For my kick-off, I decided to write about something I have been thinking about a lot lately: being alone. Not in a depressing, FOREVER ALONE, kind of way; in a Independent Lady Let Me Live My Life kind of way.
In high school and a couple of years after that, I was very insecure (who wasn't?). I was one of those girls that couldn't go ANYWHERE alone. I needed a friend to go with me to the bathroom, to the pep rally, to walk into class, to walk into lunch. All the time. Having another person with me was a great buffer for that insecurity weighing so heavy on my shoulders. Back then, it was as if people were judging me, staring at me, when I was alone. Ah, teenagers.
Nowadays, things are completely different. It's due in part to the fact that I'm a New Yorker now, and we are an independent folk to begin with, and it's not unusual here to be a young person eating somewhere alone or doing something alone, but mostly it's because this past year has really been the year I have come into my own. My confident has soared, and I truly just DGAF what other people think. This, combined with the greatest city on the planet, has opened up a new world for me.
I love being alone. I LOVE IT. I would scream it from the rooftops except the entrance to the roof has some weird warning about radio waves (let's pretend we don't care about that). I eat alone. I shop alone. I go to the movies alone. I even go to a bar alone. I know all you naysayers will talk about how depressing it is and what not but it's truly amazing. If I feel like talking, there will be people to talk to, but usually, I just get into my headspace and daydream or work through what I need to.
If you're nervous about trying this, or aren't sure what to do alone, think back to a time when something was going on you really wanted to do, but you couldn't get anyone to go with you. Whether they weren't interested or didn't have the time, you have probably skipped something important to you because you had no one to go with. DON'T DO THIS. GO to that museum exhibit, GO to that concert. Introduce yourself to yourself, and then go get down with your bad self and your choice of activity.
As I was walking down the street the other day, music blaring in my headphones, mouthing along with the words, it struck me how far I have come. Part of it is just growing up, but mostly it's that I have unlocked the best side of me. I am happier, I can stick up for myself, I can get what I want, all because I have learned to appreciate myself, take comfort in spending time with myself, and basically, to love myself. :)
This post is part of a series, Blogging from A to Z, you can learn more about the challenge, and find other blogs participating, here.
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
Howdy!! It feels good to be back here after a few weeks of neglect. I've had some personal stuff going on, and overall it has been a very stressful month, but the bitch is back, baby.
I have been writing posts all the time for the A to Z blogging challenge about which I am SO EXCITED!! It's been really fun and challenging coming up with creative posts to correspond with the letters of the alphabet. Can't wait to show you all what I've come up with.
I also have a fun announcement to make in a couple of weeks that's not that big of a deal but it's something I've also been working on a lot so I'm super pumped about that.
Otherwise, not much has been going on. I have been working at the restaurant a lot because I want to get money for my bills for the summer saved up now so that this one (my last in NYC) can be free of worrying about any of that stuff! I'll already have the $$ for my utilities, metrocards, etc., so that way I can spend my money on fun activities and having an awesome time.
I have also been working on my screenplay alot. After being super inspired by my writing partner, it has all really clicked and the ideas have just been pouring out.
Hope y'all are having a great(and warm-it's still snowing here-ugh) week. I'll be back Friday with some regularly scheduled content.
And now a video, because, you know, I MUST:
I have been writing posts all the time for the A to Z blogging challenge about which I am SO EXCITED!! It's been really fun and challenging coming up with creative posts to correspond with the letters of the alphabet. Can't wait to show you all what I've come up with.
I also have a fun announcement to make in a couple of weeks that's not that big of a deal but it's something I've also been working on a lot so I'm super pumped about that.
Otherwise, not much has been going on. I have been working at the restaurant a lot because I want to get money for my bills for the summer saved up now so that this one (my last in NYC) can be free of worrying about any of that stuff! I'll already have the $$ for my utilities, metrocards, etc., so that way I can spend my money on fun activities and having an awesome time.
I have also been working on my screenplay alot. After being super inspired by my writing partner, it has all really clicked and the ideas have just been pouring out.
Hope y'all are having a great(and warm-it's still snowing here-ugh) week. I'll be back Friday with some regularly scheduled content.
And now a video, because, you know, I MUST:
Friday, February 22, 2013
Happy Friday everybody! And by everybody I mean you Ash, my one and only faithful reader. My favorite event of the year is here this weekend. More than Christmas, more than the Fourth of July, maybe even more than bacon, THAT'S how much I LOVE THE ACADEMY AWARDS.
Yeah, it's all really about politics and money and blah blah blah, but it's still magical.
weekly review time:
still thinking about....Justin (my official new writing partner) and I had our first meeting and it was AMAZEBALLS. The ideas were flowing and it got me really excited to be working on a few projects that I will share more about later.
hating the fact that...my room is really messy and has been that way for the entire week. I have to clean it though because people are coming over and I like to at least appear that I have my shit a little bit together.
dreaming about....my own place. As much as I love my best friend, and living with people because it makes me less of a hermit, I AM READY TO LIVE ALONE. I'm tired of cleaning up after people, tired of feeling limited, tired of not liking my living space. I have been dreaming nonstop of my own tiny space to make my own. Now is when I begin praying to the gods that I can find a studio when I move to L.A.
hoping that....Jessica Chastain wins Best Actress. I know JLaw's got it on lockdown but I was just more impressed with Jessica. Everyone is talking about how her performance is less showy and emotional and HELLO that's why I love it.
So here is to a fabulous weekend! LIVE IT UP.
I'm off to practice my awards speech in my mirror. Naturally.
Tuesday, February 19, 2013

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I'm Harper, and I am just trying to figure out how this whole "growing up" thing works. Also, I like bacon.
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